Trying to seduce a man, in my eyes, is like trying to solve a Rubik's cube...in the dark, lol. I don't know why it's so hard for me to seduce a man in real life. I feel that it happens more naturally through text for me than it does in person. So, since I am about to turn 28 and I am getting close to the beautiful age of 30, I want to be more sexy and mature, and the way I feel that I can accomplish that is by working on my seduction.
I want my seduction to come off natural when I am talking to a man and not forced. I think that the art of seduction, yes, I am calling it art because it is an art, and I think it comes from being confident in who you are. When you have any level of confidence, I feel that you can seduce any man you want because you know what you are working with, and you know you are the prize or whatever Lori Harvey said. My sister and friend say that men like the innocent look off my cheeks, but I want to get a man with more than an innocent face. so being able to pull a man because he might have a kink for the innocent look is cool or whatever, but it's like, what can I do now to show him I may look innocent, but I'm not, babe. Like, I want him/whoever I'm flirting with to be shaking in their boots ( that was corny, I know, lol) from the eye contact I will give them. Those of you probably thinking, "Eye contact, really?" may not have paid attention to it like me. For me personally, this is one of the top seduction tools I want to master; imagine making a man horny just from the eye contact you give him. Ladies and men, believe it or not, they really like that shit. They love a woman who can hold eye contact with them; you know you got them when they say, "Ohh, don't look at me like that."
I only noticed this when I was watching this show. Don't judge me, LOL, but I was watching Too Hot To Handle, and this one girl's name was Christine. She was a gorgeous 6'1 goddess; I wanted to watch her because I had heard a lot about her from other shows, so I said let me see what my good sis is about. *Cross legs* This girl was the definition of the word seduce like you open the dictionary up and you see her name lol She had this one man in a choke hold just by the way she looked at him, he couldn't walk by without smiling at her. She literally seduced him out of his drawers with her eyes. That's the only thing she had to do. I was just sitting there watching the show. Like, damn, if that's all it takes, then what am I doing wrong? Is it that I don't know how to seduce, or do I lack the confidence in myself I need? Therefore, it does not come off as seduction. I can't be the only one that wants to have one of those tv moments, and you know the moments I am talking about, 'XXX scene.' I feel like being able to seduce is the way to get that moment. I know this might seem small to others who read this, but it's easy to get a man to approach you in a bar or club without you knowing until he is tapping you on the shoulder. Can you seduce a man to come your way by only using your eyes and nothing else? My goal is to ultimately eye-fuck a man during a conversation, to the point he has to look away or, you know .. wink wink *. It doesn't have to be during the conversation. It can be across the room in a club or bar. How does one practice something like this when they are single as a pringle, and dating life right now is well.....trash. We just have to get out there and do it if that means using an old flame we all have in our pocket (the one I'm talking about) or being bold and starting fresh out in public.
Question or test: can you seduce a man or women with your eyes without them thinking its weird?
-XOXOXO
Makayla 💋
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